I MADE IT! 05.27.2016



Through hustle and bustle of assignments and exams, I finally made it through my college life! It has been a tough journey especially having to deal with the long distance relationship with my family and friends as well as the huge time difference. I am glad that my determination has not stopped me from continuing to strive for a better future. Many people might think that education only carries a small part of our lives, but having a strong fundamental knowledge in education plays a significant role in shaping us to become a well-rounded person.


I want to take this opportunity to specially thanks some parties for playing a pivotal role in guiding and supporting me through this rough journey. I am not alone in completing my undergraduate life. The biggest gratitude goes to my parents for showering me with unconditional love and support in terms of mental, physical and finance. They have always been my pillars of strength and my fountain of wisdom. I am so glad that I can finally make them feel proud of me. I could also feel that you guys were so proud of me during my graduation day. I understand that this is just a half-quarter of my Psychology career, but I will make sure I keep on striving and never give up on my career.

Besides my parents, I also want to extend my earnest gratitude to my siblings and relatives especially one of my uncles who have helped and guided me in completing this journey. Despite could not be here physically, you guys still vital to me. I'm thankful to have you guys in my life and I hope that I am playing a well role model for you guys.

Apart from my family, I'm grateful for having best friends, who have been with me throughout this journey. You know who you are. Thank you for playing such an important role in my life. I still remember how sad I was to leave you guys and study abroad, but look; we did successfully keep in touch throughout these few years. Our friendships still remain strong and solid after years of long-distanced friendships. You guys are the best, and I would not want to ask for a better one.


For every friend that I met, every class that I attended, every professor who taught me, it meant a lot to me. My college life is perfect with thick and thins, happiness and sorrows. Now, I only left with one short summer semester and I will be officially graduated from SFSU. Thank you SFSU for all the memories, you have been good and evil for these 3 years.



在國外度過農曆新年


自從來了美國近三年每逢春節的來臨都是讓人特別特別想家雖人剛剛從馬來西亞返回舊金山可是那種令人難以接受的牽掛依然不變每到除夕晚和初一總要隔著時差給家裡打個越洋電話然後再忙中閒召集和同的朋友一起吃頓團圓飯今年也不例外約好與幾位關係較好的朋友一起到一家餐館慶祝新年努力地在海外過度這個重要的日子

離父母越遠愈發思念感恩之情越發強烈除夕之夜大家都想給家裡打電話拜年此時此刻想的話幾乎年年都一樣每一句話都特別容易在心深處掀起情感的風暴和波瀾老實不管外面的世界有多精彩只有有家人在的地方才是真正屬於你的家每年漂洋過海返馬的心情仍歷歷在目話有付出才會有收穫我希望這小小的犧牲能換來一個美好的前程

漂泊流浪的生活是人生必經之路是人生寶貴財富在海外過年的經歷是人生的珍貴回憶無論走到世界上任何一個角落當除夕鐘聲敲響之時我們翹首遙望東方祝親人朋友們幸福安康新年快樂祝祖國繁榮富強原所有能回家團聚的人都如願以償

新年快樂

恭喜發財

年年有餘

 事事如意 

Happy Prosperous Chinese New Year!

潔瑩

Goodbye 2k15 Hello 2k16 ♥

2015, it has been a year that filled with ups and downs. It is a perfect time for me to get brutally honest with myself: about where I have been, where am I now; and where I want to go.

Looking back on 2015…

Q: What did I love about 2015?
A: Things I love during the year of 2015 were definitely those precious moments that I had created with my family and best friends especially during the summer break.

Q: What do you wish you had done that you didn’t accomplish?
A: The only regret even until today is that I made the worst decision for not coming back during the last winter break. I missed the chance of paying my last visit to my dearly grandma who left me a month after winter break. This is my biggest regret in my life and I blamed it all on myself. I wish I could come back, and thought that she could live longer. However, God knew the best, and I returned her back to the Lord.

Q: Do you like the choices you made in your romantic relationship? Career? Health? Friendships?
A: Urmm.. Basically I have not involved myself in a romantic relationship because I am quite choosy when comes to a relationship (a long-term relationship). I will just let the fade to bring me there once it is time to get into it. As for career, I still on my way of completing my Bachelor of degree in Psychology, and I am determined to work for it. In health, I guess I was way healthier in comparison to the past few years because I tried to eat healthier. As for friendship, this is partly my life. However, as I grew up, I found my true friends and I knew who took me for granted and who treasured me the most. I don’t need many friends; all I need is true friends. You know who you are.

Q: What was the most fun moment? The most painful moment?
A: The most fun moment I guess would be the Jakarta trip with the best friends as this was our first gateway with each other. The most painful moment was surely the lost of my grandma.

Q: What are you most grateful for?
I am grateful that I am given the golden opportunity to be independent in the US, and undoubtedly thankful for having great parents that financially and emotionally supporting me in whatever I am pursuing.

Q: How did your life change?
My life did not change much during this year, but I remained pessimistic and had lower self-esteem towards myself. I also enjoyed the feeling of being challenged by others in every circumstance because it really helped and motivated me to become a better person.

Q: What is the most important thing you learned about yourself?
A: I needed to be challenged in order to do well on my studies.

Looking forward to 2016…

Q: What do you most want in your life during the next year?
A: It is undoubtedly my completion of Bachelor degree.

Q: What experiences do you hope to have?
A: I hope to be able to intern or have a job that relates to what I am studying right now and able to earn some US dollars.

Q: What is your biggest priority? Where are you going to devote the majority of your energy and time to ?
A: My biggest priority is definitely my studies. Studies always come first. I promise to give my best in all the remaining classes and I will devote most of my time, effort and energy on it.

Q: What is one area of your life that you want to be different?
A: I hope to start my work life in the US.

Q: Where are your greatest opportunities for growth?

A: My greatest opportunity for growth will be the chance of starting of my work life. It is part of my life; I need to gain sufficient work experience before continuing my master degree.